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by general stated laws ? Who shall frame these laws ? Who will
give them force and energy? It is true, your resolutions, as a
body, have hitherto had the force of laws; but will they continue
to have ?
When I consider these things, and the prejudices of people in
favor of ancient customs and regulations, I feel anxious for the
fate of our monarchy, or democracy, or whatever is to take place.
I soon get lost in the labyrinth of perplexities; but, whatever
occurs, may justice and righteousness be the stability of our times,
and order arise out of confusion. Great difficulties may be sur-
mounted by patience and perseverance.
I believe I have tired you with politics. As to news, we have
not any at all. I shudder at the approach of winter, when I
think I am to remain desolate.
I must bid you good-night; 'tis late for me, who am much
of an invalid. I was disappointed last week in receiving a packet
by post, and, upon unsealing it, finding only four newspapers.
I think you are more cautious than you need be. All letters, I
believe, have come safe to hand. I have sixteen from you, and
wish I had as many more.
Your
PORTIA.
[By permission of the family
BRAINTREE, April 20th, 1777.
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HERE is a general cry against the merchants, against monopo-
lizers, etc. , who, 'tis said, have created a partial scarcity.
That a scarcity prevails of every article, not only of luxury
but even the necessaries of life, is a certain fact. Everything
bears an exorbitant price. The Act, which was in some measure
regarded and stemmed the torrent of oppression, is now no more
heeded than if it had never been made. Indian corn at five shil-
lings; rye, eleven and twelve shillings, but scarcely any to be had
even at that price; beef, eightpence; veal, sixpence and eight-
pence; butter, one and sixpence; mutton, none; lamb, none; pork,
none; mean sugar, four pounds per hundred; molasses, none;
cotton-wool, none; New England rum, eight shillings per gallon;
coffee, two and sixpence per pound; chocolate, three shillings.
What can be done? Will gold and silver remedy this evil ?
By your accounts of board, housekeeping, etc. , I fancy you are
not better off than we are here. I live in hopes that we see the
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most difficult time we have to experience. Why is Carolina so
much better furnished than any other State, and at so reasonable
prices?
Your
Portia.
BRAINTREE, June 8th, 1779.
ix months have already elapsed since I heard a syllable from
S,
opportunity of conveying a line to you. Letters of various
dates have lain months at the Navy Board, and a packet and frig-
ate, both ready to sail at an hour's warning, have been months
waiting the orders of Congress. They no doubt have their rea-
sons, or ought to have, for detaining them. I must patiently wait
their motions, however painful it is; and that it is so, your own
feelings will testify. Yet I know not but you are less a sufferer
than you would be to hear from us, to know our distresses, and
yet be unable to relieve them. The universal cry for bread, to
a humane heart, is painful beyond description, and the great price
demanded and given for it verifies that pathetic passage of Sacred
Writ, “All that a man hath will he give for his life. ” Yet He
who miraculously fed a multitude with five loaves and two fishes
has graciously interposed in our favor, and delivered many of the
enemy's supplies into our hands, so that our distresses have been
mitigated. I have been able as yet to supply my own family,
sparingly, but at a price that would astonish you. Corn is sold at
four dollars, hard money, per bushel, which is equal to eighty at
the rate of exchange.
Labor is at eight dollars per day, and in three weeks it will be
at twelve, it is probable, or it will be more stable than anything
else. Goods of all kinds are at such a price that I hardly dare
mention it. Linens are sold at twenty dollars per yard; the most
ordinary sort of calicoes at thirty and forty; broadcloths at forty
pounds per yard; West India goods full as high; molasses at
twenty dollars per gallon; sugar, four dollars per pound; Bohea
tea at forty dollars; and our own produce in proportion; butch-
er's meat at six and eight shillings per pound; board at fifty and
sixty dollars per week; rates high. That, I suppose, you will re-
joice at; so would I, did it remedy the evil. I pay five hundred
dollars, and a new Continental rate has just appeared, my pro-
portion of which will be two hundred more. I have come to this
determination, -- to sell no more bills, unless I can procure hard
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money for them, although I shall be obliged to allow a discount.
If I sell for paper, I throw away more than half, so rapid is the
depreciation; nor do I know that it will be received long. I sold
a bill to Blodget at five for one, which was looked upon as high
at that time. The week after I received it, two emissions were
taken out of circulation, and the greater part of what I had
proved to be of that sort; so that those to whom I was indebted
are obliged to wait, and before it becomes due, or is exchanged,
it will be good for - as much as it will fetch, which will be noth-
ing, if it goes on as it has done for this three months past. I
will not tire your patience any longer. I have not drawn any
further upon you.
I mean to wait the return of the Alliance,
which with longing eyes I look for. God grant it may bring
me comfortable tidings from my dear, dear friend, whose welfare
is so essential to my happiness that it is entwined around my
heart, and cannot be impaired or separated from it without rend-
ing it asunder.
I cannot say that I think our affairs go very well here. Our
currency seems to be the source of all our evils. We cannot fill
up our Continental army by means of it. No bounty will prevail
with them. What can be done with it? It will sink in less than
a year.
The advantage the enemy daily gains over us is owing
to this. Most truly did you prophesy, when you said that they
would do all the mischief in their power with the forces they had
here.
My tenderest regards ever attend you. In all places and situ-
ations, know me to be ever, ever yours.
.
A
AUTEUIL, 5th September, 1784.
My Dear Sister :
UTEUIL is a village four miles distant from Paris, and one from
Passy. The house we have taken is large, commodious,
and agreeably situated near the woods of Boulogne, which
belong to the King, and which Mr. Adams calls his park, for he
walks an hour or two every day in them. The house is much
larger than we have need of; upon occasion, forty beds may be
made in it. I fancy it must be very cold in winter. There are
few houses with the privilege which this enjoys, that of having
the salon, as it is called, the apartment where we receive com-
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a third larger than General Warren's hall. The dining-room is
upon the right hand, and the salon upon the left, of the entry,
which has large glass doors opposite to each other, one opening
into the court, as they call it, the other into a large and beauti-
ful garden. Out of the dining-room you pass through an entry
into the kitchen, which is rather small for so large a house. In
this entry are stairs which you ascend, at the top of which is a
long gallery fronting the street, with six windows, and opposite to
each window you open into the chambers, which all look into the
garden.
But with an expense of thirty thousand livres in looking-
glasses, there is no table in the house better than an oak board,
nor a carpet belonging to the house. The floors I abhor, made
of red tiles in the shape of Mrs. Quincy's floor-cloth tiles. These
floors will by no means bear water, so that the method of clean-
ing them is to have them waxed, and then a manservant with
foot brushes drives round your room, dancing here and there like
a Merry Andrew. This is calculated to take from your foot every
atom of dirt, and leave the room in a few moments as he found
it. The house must be exceedingly cold in winter. The dining-
rooms, of which you make no other use, are laid with small
stones, like the red tiles for shape and size. The servants' apart-
ments are generally upon the first floor, and the stairs which you
commonly have to ascend to get into the family apartments are
so dirty that I have been obliged to hold up my clothes as though
I was passing through a cow-yard.
I have been but little abroad. It is customary in this country
for strangers to make the first visit. As I cannot speak the lan-
guage, I think I should make rather an awkward figure. I have
dined abroad several times with Mr. Adams's particular friends,
the Abbés, who are very polite and civil, — three sensible and
worthy men. The Abbé de Mably has lately published a book,
which he has dedicated to Mr. Adams. This gentleman is nearly
eighty years old; the Abbé Chalut, seventy-five; and Arnoux
about fifty, a fine sprightly man, who takes great pleasure in
obliging his friends. Their apartments were really nice. I have
dined once at Dr. Franklin's, and once at Mr. Barclay's, our con-
sul, who has a very agreeable woman for his wife, and where I
feel like being with a friend. Mrs. Barclay has assisted me in
my purchases, gone with me to different shops, etc. To-morrow
I am to dine at Monsieur Grand's; but I have really felt so
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happy within doors, and am so pleasingly situated, that I have
had little inclination to change the scene. I have not been to one
public amusement as yet, not even the opera, though we have
one very near us.
You may easily suppose I have been fully employed, beginning
housekeeping anew, and arranging my family to our no small
expenses and trouble; for I have had bed-linen and table-linen to
purchase and make, spoons and forks to get made of silver,
three dozen of each, — besides tea furniture, china for the table,
servants to procure, etc. The expense of living abroad I always
supposed to be high, but my ideas were nowise adequate to the
thing. I could have furnished myself in the town of Boston with
everything I have, twenty or thirty per cent. cheaper than I have
been able to do it here. Everything which will bear the name of
elegant is imported from England, and if you will have it, you
must pay for it, duties and all. I cannot get a dozen handsome
wineglasses under three guineas, nor a pair of small decanters for
less than a guinea and a half. The only gauze fit to wear is
English, at a crown a yard; so that really a guinea goes no further
than a copper with us. For this house, garden, stables, etc. , we
give two hundred guineas a year. Wood is two guineas and a
half per cord; coal, six livres the basket of about two bushels;
this article of firing we calculate at one hundred guineas a year.
The difference between coming upon this negotiation to France,
and remaining at the Hague, where the house was already fur-
nished at the expense of a thousand pounds sterling, will increase
the expense here to six or seven hundred guineas; at a time, too,
when Congress has cut off five hundred guineas from what they
have heretofore given. For our coachman and horses alone (Mr.
Adams purchased a coach in England) we give fifteen guineas a
month. It is the policy of this country to oblige you to a certain
number of servants, and one will not touch what belongs to the
business of another, though he or she has time enough to per-
form the whole. In the first place, there is a coachman who does
not an individual thing but attend to the carriages and horses;
then the gardener, who has business enough; then comes the cook;
then the maître d'hotel, — his business is to purchase articles in
the family, and oversee that nobody cheats but himself; a valet de
chambre, — John serves in this capacity; a femme de chambre,
Esther serves for this, and is worth a dozen others; a coiffeuse,–
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been upon the point of turning away, because madam will not
brush a chamber: “it is not de fashion, it is not her business. ”
I would not have kept her a day longer, but found, upon inquiry,
that I could not better myself, and hair-dressing here is very
expensive unless you keep such a madam in the house. She
sews tolerably well, so I make her as useful as I can. She is
more particularly devoted to mademoiselle. Esther diverted me
yesterday evening by telling me that she heard her go muttering
by her chamber door, after she had been assisting Abby in dress-
ing. Ah, mon Dieu, 'tis provoking "— (she talks a little Eng-
lish). —“Why, what is the matter, Pauline: what is provoking ? ”
—“Why, Mademoiselle look so pretty, I so mauvais. ” There is
another indispensable servant, who is called a frotteur: his busi-
ness is to rub the floors.
We have a servant who acts as maître d'hotel, whom I like at
present, and who is so very gracious as to act as footman too,
to save the expense of another servant, upon condition that we
give him a gentleman's suit of clothes in lieu of a livery. Thus,
with seven servants and hiring a charwoman upon occasion of
company, we may possibly make out to keep house; with less, we
should be hooted at as ridiculous, and could not entertain any
company. To tell this in our own country would be considered as
extravagance; but would they send a person here in a public char-
acter to be a public jest ? At lodgings in Paris last year, during
Mr. Adams's negotiation for a peace, it was as expensive to him
as it is now at housekeeping, without half the accommodations.
Washing is another expensive article: the servants are all
allowed theirs, besides their wages; our own costs us a guinea a
week. I have become steward and bookkeeper, determined to
know with accuracy what our expenses are, to prevail with Mr.
Adams to return to America if he finds himself straitened, as I
think he must be.
Mr. Jay went home because he could not
support his family here with the whole salary; what then can be
done, curtailed as it now is, with the additional expense ? Mr.
Adams is determined to keep as little company as he possibly
can; but some entertainments we must make, and it is no
unusual thing for them to amount to fifty or sixty guineas at
a time. More is to be performed by way of negotiation, many
times, at one of these entertainments, than at twenty serious con-
versations; but the policy of our country has been, and still is,
to be penny-wise and pound-foolish. We stand in sufficient
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need of economy, and in the curtailment of other salaries I
suppose they thought it absolutely necessary to cut off their
foreign ministers. But, my own interest apart, the system is bad;
for that nation which degrades their own ministers by obliging
them to live in narrow circumstances, cannot expect to be held in
high estimation themselves. We spend no evenings abroad, make
no suppers, attend very few public entertainments, or specta-
cles, as they are called, — and avoid every expense that is not
held indispensable. Yet I cannot but think it hard that a gentle-
man who has devoted so great a part of his life to the service
of the public, who has been the means, in a great measure, of
procuring such extensive territories to his country, who saved their
fisheries, and who is still laboring to procure them further advan-
tages, should find it necessary so cautiously to calculate his pence,
for fear of overrunning them. I will add one more expense.
There is now a court mourning, and every foreign minister, with
his family, must go into mourning for a Prince of eight years old,
whose father is an ally to the King of France. This mourning is
ordered by the Court, and is to be worn eleven days only. Poor
Mr. Jefferson had to hie away for a tailor to get a whole black-
silk suit made up in two days; and at the end of eleven days,
should another death happen, he will be obliged to have a new
suit of mourning, of cloth, because that is the season when silk
must be left off. We may groan and scold, but these are expenses
which cannot be avoided; for fashion is the deity every one
worships in this country, and from the highest to the lowest, you
must submit. Even poor John and Esther had no comfort among
the servants, being constantly the subjects of ridicule, until we
were obliged to direct them to have their hair dressed. Esther
had several crying fits upon the occasion, that she should be
forced to be so much of a fool; but there was no way to keep
them from being trampled upon but this, and now that they are
à la mode de Paris, they are much respected. To be out of
fashion is more criminal than to be seen in a state of nature, to
which the Parisians are not averse.
AUTEUIL, NEAR PARIS, 10th May, 1785.
ID you ever, my dear Betsey, see a person in real life such
as your imagination formed of Sir Charles Grandison ? The
Baron de Staël, the Swedish Ambassador, comes nearest to
that character, in his manners and personal appearance, of any
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gentleman I ever saw.
The first time I saw him I was prejudiced
in his favor, for his countenance commands your good opinion:
it is animated, intelligent, sensible, affable, and without being per-
fectly beautiful, is most perfectly agreeable; add to this a fine
figure, and who can fail in being charmed with the Baron de
Staël ? He lives in a grand hotel, and his suite of apartments, his
furniture, and his table, are the most elegant of anything I have
seen. Although you dine upon plate in every noble house in
France, I cannot say that you may see your face in it; but here
the whole furniture of the table was burnished, and shone with
regal splendor. Seventy thousand livres in plate will make no
small figure; and that is what his Majesty gave him. The dessert
was served on the richest china, with knives, forks, and spoons
of gold. As you enter his apartments, you pass through files of
servants into his ante-chamber, in which is a throne covered with
green velvet, upon which is a chair of state, over which hangs
the picture of his royal master. These thrones are common to all
ambassadors of the first order, as they are immediate representa-
tives of the king. Through this ante-chamber you pass into the
grand salon, which is elegantly adorned with architecture, a beauti-
ful lustre hanging from the middle. Settees, chairs, and hangings
of the richest silk, embroidered with gold; marble slabs upon
Auted pillars, round which wreaths of artificial flowers in gold
entwine. It is usual to find in all houses of fashion, as in this,
several dozens of chairs, all of which have stuffed backs and
cushions, standing in double rows round the rooms. The dining-
room was equally beautiful, being hung with Gobelin tapestry, the
colors and figures of which resemble the most elegant painting.
In this room were hair-bottom mahogany-backed chairs, and the
first I have seen since I came to France. Two small statues of a
Venus de Medicis, and a Venus de (ask Miss Paine for the
other name), were upon the mantelpiece. The latter, however,
was the most modest of the kind, having something like a loose
robe thrown partly over her.
From the vedish Ambassador's
we went to visit the Duchess d'Enville, who is mother to the
Duke de Rochefoucault. We found the old lady sitting in an easy-
chair; around her sat a circle of Academicians, and by her side a
young lady. Your uncle presented us, and the old lady rose, and,
as usual, gave us a salute. As she had no paint, I could put up
with it; but when she approached your cousin I could think of
nothing but Death taking hold of Hebe. The duchess is near
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eighty, very tall and lean. She was dressed in a silk chemise,
with very large sleeves, coming half-way down her arm, a large
cape, no stays, a black-velvet girdle round her waist, some very
rich lace in her chemise, round her neck, and in her sleeves; but
the lace was not sufficient to cover the upper part of her neck,
which old Time had harrowed; she had no cap on, but a little
gauze bonnet, which did not reach her ears, and tied under her
chin, her venerable white hairs in full view. The dress of old
women and young girls in this country is detestable, to speak in
the French style; the latter at the age of seven being clothed
exactly like a woman of twenty, and the former have such a fan-
tastical appearance that I cannot endure it. The old lady has all
the vivacity of a young one.
She is the most learned woman in
France; her house is the resort of all men of literature, with
whom she converses upon the most abstruse subjects. She is of
one of the most ancient, as well as the richest families in the
kingdom. She asked very archly when Dr. Franklin was going to
America, Upon being told, says she, “I have heard that he is a
prophet there;" alluding to that text of Scripture, “A prophet is
not without honor,” etc. It was her husband who commanded
the fleet which once spread such terror in our country.
TO HER SISTER
I
LONDON, Friday, 24th July 1784.
My Dear Sister:
Am not a little surprised to find dress, unless upon public occas-
ions, so little regarded here. The gentlemen are very plainly
dressed, and the ladies much more so than with us.
'Tis true,
you must put a hoop on and have your hair dressed; but a com-
mon straw hat, no cap, with only a ribbon upon the crown, is
thought dress sufficient to go into company. Muslins are much in
taste; no silks but lutestrings worn; but send not to London for
any article you want: you may purchase anything you can name
much lower in Boston. I went yesterday into Cheapside to pur-
chase a few articles, but found everything higher than in Boston.
Silks are in a particular manner so; they say, when they are
exported, there is a drawback upon them, which makes them
lower with us. Our country, alas, our country! they are extrava-
gant to astonishment in entertainments compared with what Mr.
Smith and Mr. Storer tell me of this. You will not find at a
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gentleman's table more than two dishes of meat, though invited
several days beforehand. Mrs.
Atkinson went out with me yes-
terday, and Mrs. Hay, to the shops. I returned and dined with
Mrs. Atkinson, by her invitation the evening before, in company
with Mr. Smith, Mrs. Hay, Mr. Appleton. We had a turbot, a
soup, and a roast leg of lamb, with a cherry pie.
The wind has prevented the arrival of the post. The city of
London is pleasanter than I expected; the buildings more regu-
lar, the streets much wider, and more sunshine than I thought to
have found: but this, they tell me, is the pleasantest season to be
in the city. At my lodgings I am as quiet as at any place in Bos-
ton; nor do I feel as if it could be any other place than Boston.
Dr. Clark visits us every day; says he cannot feel at home any-
where else: declares he has not seen a handsome woman since he
came into the city; that every old woman looks like Mrs. H—,
and every young one like — like the D-1. They paint here nearly
as much as in France, but with more art. The head-dress disfig.
ures them in the eyes of an American. I have seen many ladies,
but not one elegant one since I came; there is not to me that
neatness in their appearance which you see in our ladies.
The American ladies are much admired here by the gen-
tlemen, I am told, and in truth I wonder not at it. Oh, my
country, my country! preserve, preserve the little purity and
simplicity of manners you yet possess. Believe me, they are
jewels of inestimable value; the softness, peculiarly characteristic
of our sex, and which is so pleasing to the gentlemen, is wholly
laid aside here for the masculine attire and manners of Amazonians.
I
LONDON, BATH HOTEL, WESTMINSTER, 24th June, 1785.
My Dear Sister :
HAVE been here a month without writing a single line to my
American friends. On or about the twenty-eighth of May we
reached London, and expected to have gone into our old quiet
lodgings at the Adelphi; but we found every hotel full. The sit-
ting of Parliament, the birthday of the King, and the famous
celebration of the music of Handel, at Westminster Abbey, had
drawn together such a concourse of people that we were glad to
get into lodgings at the moderate price of a guinea per day, for
two rooms and two chambers, at the Bath Hotel, Westminster,
Piccadilly, where we yet are. This being the Court end of the
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city, it is the resort of a vast concourse of carriages. It is too
public and noisy for pleasure, but necessity is without law. The
ceremony of presentation, upon one week to the King, and the
next to the Queen, was to take place, after which I was to pre-
pare for mine.
It is customary, upon presentation, to receive visits
from all the foreign ministers; so that we could not exchange our
lodgings for more private ones, as we might and should, had we
been only in a private character. The foreign ministers and sev-
eral English lords and earls have paid their compliments here,
and all hitherto is civil and polite. I was a fortnight, all the
time I could get, looking at different houses, but could not find any
one fit to inhabit under £200, beside the taxes, which mount up
to £50 or £60. At last my good genius carried me to one in
Grosvenor Square, which was not let, because the person who had
the care of it could let it only for the remaining lease, which was
one year and three-quarters. The price, which is not quite two
hundred pounds, the situation, and all together, induced us to
close the bargain, and I have prevailed upon the person who lets
it to paint two rooms, which will put it into decent order; so that,
as soon as our furniture comes, I shall again commence house-
keeping Living at a hotel is, I think, more expensive than
housekeeping, in proportion to what one has for his money. We
have never had more than two dishes at a time upon our table,
and have not pretended to ask any company, and yet we live at a
greater expense than twenty-five guineas per week. The wages
of servants, horse hire, house rent, and provisions are much
dearer here than in France. Servants of various sorts, and for
different departments, are to be procured; their characters are to
be inquired into, and this I take upon me, even to the coachman.
You can hardly form an idea how much I miss my son on this,
as well as on many other accounts; but I cannot bear to trouble
Mr. Adams with anything of a domestic kind, who, from morning
until evening, has sufficient to occupy all his time. You can have
no idea of the petitions, letters, and private applications for
assistance, which crowd our doors. Every person represents his
case as dismal. Some may really be objects of compassion, and
some we assist; but one must have an inexhaustible purse to
supply them all. Besides, there are so many gross impositions
practiced, as we have found in more instances than one, that it
would take the whole of a person's time to trace all their stories.
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as officers. A most glaring instance of falsehood, however,
Colonel Smith detected in a man of these pretensions, who sent
to Mr. Adams from the King's Bench prison, and modestly
desired five guineas; a qualified cheat, but evidently a man of
letters and abilities: but if it is to continue in this way, a galley
slave would have an easier task.
The Tory venom has begun to spit itself forth in the public
papers, as I expected, bursting with envy that an American min-
ister should be received here with the same marks of attention,
politeness, and civility, which are shown to the ministers of any
other power.
When a minister delivers his credentials to the
King, it is always in his private closet, attended only by the
Minister for Foreign Affairs, which is called a private audience,
and the minister presented makes some little address to his
Majesty, and the same ceremony to the Queen, whose reply was
in these words: “Sir, I thank you for your civility to me and
my family, and I am glad to see you in this country;” then she
very politely inquired whether he had got a house yet. The
answer of his Majesty was much longer; but I am not at liberty
to say more respecting it, than that it was civil and polite, and
that his Majesty said he was glad the choice of his country had
fallen upon him. The news-liars know nothing of the matter;
they represent it just to answer their purpose. Last Thursday,
Colonel Smith was presented at Court, and to-morrow, at the
Queen's circle, my ladyship and your niece make our compli-
ments. There is no other presentation in Europe in which I
should feel as much as in this. Your own reflections will easily
suggest the reasons.
I have received a very friendly and polite visit from the
Countess of Effingham. She called, and not finding me at home,
left a card. I returned her visit, but was obliged to do it by leav-
ing my card too, as she was gone out of town; but when her
ladyship returned, she sent her compliments and word that if
agreeable she would take a dish of tea with me, and named her
day. She accordingly came, and appeared a very polite, sensible
woman. She is about forty, a good person, though a little mas.
culine, elegant in her appearance, very easy and social. The Earl
of Effingham is too well remembered by America to need any
particular recital of his character. His mother is first lady to the
Queen. When her ladyship took leave, she desired I would let
her know the day I would favor her with a visit, as she should be
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loath to be absent. She resides, in suminer, a little distance
from town. The Earl is a member of Parliament, which obliges
him now to be in town, and she usually comes with him, and
resides at a hotel a little distance from this,
I find a good many ladies belonging to the Southern States
here, many of whom have visited me; I have exchanged visits
with several, yet neither of us have met. The custom is, how-
ever, here much more agreeable than in France, for it is as with
us: the stranger is first visited.
The ceremony of presentation here is considered as indispens-
able. There are four minister-plenipotentiaries' ladies here; but
one ambassador, and he has no lady. In France, the ladies of
ambassadors only are presented. One is obliged here to attend the
circles of the Queen, which are held in summer once a fortnight,
but once a week the rest of the year; and what renders it exceed-
ingly expensive is, that you cannot go twice the same season in
the same dress, and a Court dress you cannot make use of any.
where else. I directed my mantuamaker to let my dress be ele-
gant, but plain as I could possibly appear, with decency; accord-
ingly, it is white lutestring, covered and full trimmed with white
crape, festooned with lilac ribbon and mock point lace, over
hoop of enormous extent; there is only a narrow train of about
three yards in length to the gown waist, which is put into a rib-
bon upon the left side, the Queen only having her train borne.
Ruffle cuffs for married ladies, treble lace lappets, two white
plumes, and a blond lace handkerchief. This is my rigging. I
should have mentioned two pearl pins in my hair, earrings and
necklace of the same kind.
THURSDAY MORNING.
My head is dressed for St. James's, and in my opinion looks
very tasty. While my daughter's is undergoing the same opera-
tion, I set myself down composedly to write you a few lines.
“Well," methinks I hear Betsey and Lucy say, “what is cousin's
dress? White, my dear girls, like your aunt's, only differently
trimmed and ornamented: her train being wholly of white crape,
and trimmed with white ribbon; the petticoat, which is the most
showy part of the dress, covered and drawn up in what are called
festoons, with light wreaths of beautiful flowers; the sleeves white
crape, drawn over the silk, with a row of lace round the sleeve
near the shoulder, another half-way down the arm, and a third
upon the top of the ruffle, a little flower stuck between; a kind
a
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of hat-cap, with three large feathers and a bunch of flowers; a
wreath of flowers upon the hair. Thus equipped, we go in our
own carriage, and Mr. Adams and Colonel Smith in his. But I
must quit my pen to put myself in order for the ceremony, which
begins at two o'clock. When I return, I will relate to you my
reception; but do not let it circulate, as there may be persons
eager to catch at everything, and as much given to misrepresent-
ation as here. I would gladly be excused the ceremony.
FRIDAY MORNING.
Congratulate me, my dear sister: it is over. I was too much
fatigued to write a line last evening. At two o'clock we went to
the circle, which is in the drawing-room of the Queen. We
passed through several apartments, lined as usual with specta-
tors upon these occasions. Upon entering the ante-chamber, the
Baron de Lynden, the Dutch Minister, who has been often here,
came and spoke with me. A Count Sarsfield, a French noble-
man, with whom I was acquainted, paid his compliments. As I
passed into the drawing-room, Lord Carmarthen and Sir Clement
Cotterel Dormer were presented to me. Though they had been
several times here, I had never seen them before. The Swedish
and the Polish Ministers made their compliments, and several
other gentlemen; but not a single lady did I know until the
Countess of Effingham came, who was very civil. There were
three young ladies, daughters of the Marquis of Lothian, who were
to be presented at the same time, and two brides. We were
placed in a circle round the drawing-room, which was very full;
I believe two hundred persons present. Only think of the task!
The royal family have to go round to every person and find small
talk enough to speak to them all, though they very prudently
speak in a whisper, so that only the person who stands next to
you can hear what is said. The King enters the room and goes
round to the right; the Queen and Princesses to the left. The
lord-in-waiting presents you to the King; and the lady-in-waiting
does the same to her Majesty. The King is a personable man;
but, my dear sister, he has a certain countenance, which you and
I have often remarked: a red face and white eyebrows. The
Queen has a similar countenance, and the numerous royal family
confirm the observation. Persons are not placed according to
their rank in the drawing-room, but promiscuously; and when the
King comes in, he takes persons as they stand. When he came
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to me, Lord Onslow said, "Mrs. Adams; ” upon which I drew off
my right-hand glove, and his Majesty saluted my left cheek; then
asked me if I had taken a walk to-day. I could have told his
Majesty that I had been all the morning preparing to wait upon
him; but I replied, “No, Sire. ” «Why, don't you love walking ? »
“”
says he. I answered that I was rather indolent in that respect.
He then bowed, and passed on. It was more than two hours
after this before it came to my turn to be presented to the Queen.
The circle was so large that the company were four hours stand-
ing. The Queen was evidently embarrassed when I was presented
to her. I had disagreeable feelings, too. She, however, said,
“Mrs. Adams, have you got into your house? Pray, how do you
like the situation of it ? ” While the Princess Royal looked com-
passionate, and asked me if I was not much fatigued; and ob-
served, that it was a very full drawing-room. Her sister, who
came next, Princess Augusta, after having asked your niece if she
was ever in England before, and her answering « Yes,” inquired
of me how long ago, and supposed it was when she was very
young All this is said with much affability, and the ease and
freedom of old acquaintance. The manner in which they make
their tour round the room is, first, the Queen, the lady-in-waiting
behind her, holding up her train; next to her, the Princess Royal:
after her, Princess Augusta, and their lady-in-waiting behind them.
They are pretty, rather than beautiful; well-shaped, fair complex-
ions, and a tincture of the King's countenance. The two sisters
look much alike; they were both dressed in black and silver silk,
with silver netting upon the coat, and their heads full of diamond
pins. The Queen was in purple and silver. She is not well
shaped nor handsome. As to the ladies of the Court, rank and
title may compensate for want of personal charms; but they are,
in general, very plain, ill-shaped, and ugly; but don't you tell any.
body that I say so. If one wants to see beauty, one must go to
Ranelagh; there it is collected, in one bright constellation, There
were two ladies very elegant, at Court, - Lady Salisbury and
Lady Talbot; but the observation did not in general hold good
that fine feathers make fine birds. I saw many who were vastly
richer dressed than your friends, but I will venture to say that I
none neater or more elegant: which praise I ascribe to the
taste of Mrs. Temple and my mantuamaker; for, after having
declared that I would not have any foil or tinsel about me, they
fixed upon the dress I have described.
Saw
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(Inclosure to her niece)
My Dear Betsey:
BELIEVE I once promised to give you an account of that kind
of visiting called a ladies' rout. There are two kinds; one
where a lady sets apart a particular day in the week to see
company. These are held only five months in the year, it being
quite out of fashion to be seen in London during the summer.
When a lady returns from the country she goes round and leaves
a card with all her acquaintance, and then sends them an invita-
tion to attend her routs during the season. The other kind is
where a lady sends to you for certain evenings, and the cards are
always addressed in her own name, both to gentlemen and ladies.
The rooms are all set open, and card tables set in each room, the
lady of the house receiving her company at the door of the draw-
ing-room, where a set number of courtesies are given and received,
with as much order as is necessary for a soldier who goes through
the different evolutions of his exercise. The visitor then proceeds
into the room without appearing to notice any other person, and
takes her seat at the card tablé.
«Nor can the muse her aid impart,
Unskilled in all the terms of art,
Nor in harmonious numbers put
The deal, the shuffle, and the cut.
Go, Tom, and light the ladies up,
It must be one before we sup. "
SO
At these parties it is usual for each lady to play a rubber, as
it is termed, when you must lose or win a few guineas. To give
each a fair chance, the lady then rises and gives her seat to
another set.
It is no unusual thing to have your rooms
crowded that not more than half the company can sit at once,
yet this is called society and polite life. They treat their com-
pany with coffee, tea, lemonade, orgeat, and cake. I know of
but one agreeable circumstance attending these parties, which is,
that you may go away when you please without disturbing any.
body.
I was early in the winter invited to Madame de Pinto's,
the Portuguese Minister's. I went accordingly. There were about
two hundred persons present. I knew not a single lady but by
sight, having met them at Court; and it is an established rule,
though you were to meet as often as three nights in the week,
never to speak together, or know each other unless particularly
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introduced. I was, however, at no loss for conversation, Madame
de Pinto being very polite, and the foreign ministers being the
most of them present, who had dined with us, and to whom I
had been early introduced. It being Sunday evening, I declined
playing cards; indeed, I always get excused when I can. And
Heaven forbid I should
“Catch the manners living as they rise. ”
Yet I must submit to a party or two of this kind. Having
attended several, I must return the compliment in the same way.
Yesterday we dined at Mrs. Paradice's. I refer you to Mr.
Storer for an account of this family. Mr. Jefferson, Colonel
Smith, the Prussian and Venetian ministers, were of the com-
pany, and several other persons who were strangers. At eight
o'clock we returned home in order to dress ourselves for the ball
at the French Ambassador's, to which we had received an invi.
tation a fortnight before. He has been absent ever since our
arrival here, till three weeks ago. He has a levee every Sunday
evening, at which there are usually several hundred persons.
The Hotel de France is beautifully situated, fronting St. James's
Park, one end of the house standing upon Hyde Park.
It is a
most superb building. About half-past nine we went, and found
some company collected. Many very brilliant ladies of the first
distinction were present. The dancing commenced about ten,
and the rooms soon filled. The room which he had built for this
purpose is large enough for five or six hundred persons. It is
most elegantly decorated, hung with a gold tissue, ornamented
with twelve brilliant cut lustres, each containing twenty-four
candles. At one end there are two large arches; these were
adorned with wreaths and bunches of artificial fowers upon the
walls; in the alcoves were cornucopiæ loaded with oranges, sweet-
meats, and other trifles. Coffee, tea, lemonade, orgeat, and so
forth, were taken here by every person who chose to go for
them. There were covered seats all around the room for those
who chose to dance. In the other rooms, card tables, and a
large faro table, were set; this is a new kind of game, which is
much practiced here. Many of the company who did not dance
retired here to amuse themselves. The whole style of the house
and furniture is such as becomes the ambassador from one of the
first monarchies in Europe. He had twenty thousand guineas
allowed him in the first instance to furnish his house, and an
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annual salary of ten thousand more. He has agreeably blended
the magnificence and splendor of France with the neatness and
elegance of England. Your cousin had unfortunately taken a
cold a few days before, and was very unfit to go out. She
appeared so unwell that about one we retired without staying for
supper, the sight of which only I regretted, as it was, in style,
no doubt, superior to anything I have seen. The Prince of
Wales came about eleven o'clock. Mrs. Fitzherbert was also
present, but I could not distinguish her. But who is this lady?
methinks I hear you say. She is a lady to whom, against the
laws of the realm, the Prince of Wales is privately married, as is
universally believed. She appears with him in all public parties,
and he avows his marriage wherever he dares. They have been
the topic of conversation in all companies for a long time, and it
is now said that a young George may be expected in the course
of the summer. She was a widow of about thirty-two years of
age, whom he a long time persecuted in order to get her upon
his own terms; but finding he could not succeed, he quieted her
conscience by matrimony, which, however valid in the eye of
heaven, is set aside by the laws of the land, which forbids a
prince of the blood to marry a subject. As to dresses, I believe
I must leave them to be described to your sister. I am sorry I
have nothing better to send you than a sash and a Vandyke
ribbon.
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by general stated laws ? Who shall frame these laws ? Who will
give them force and energy? It is true, your resolutions, as a
body, have hitherto had the force of laws; but will they continue
to have ?
When I consider these things, and the prejudices of people in
favor of ancient customs and regulations, I feel anxious for the
fate of our monarchy, or democracy, or whatever is to take place.
I soon get lost in the labyrinth of perplexities; but, whatever
occurs, may justice and righteousness be the stability of our times,
and order arise out of confusion. Great difficulties may be sur-
mounted by patience and perseverance.
I believe I have tired you with politics. As to news, we have
not any at all. I shudder at the approach of winter, when I
think I am to remain desolate.
I must bid you good-night; 'tis late for me, who am much
of an invalid. I was disappointed last week in receiving a packet
by post, and, upon unsealing it, finding only four newspapers.
I think you are more cautious than you need be. All letters, I
believe, have come safe to hand. I have sixteen from you, and
wish I had as many more.
Your
PORTIA.
[By permission of the family
BRAINTREE, April 20th, 1777.
T"
HERE is a general cry against the merchants, against monopo-
lizers, etc. , who, 'tis said, have created a partial scarcity.
That a scarcity prevails of every article, not only of luxury
but even the necessaries of life, is a certain fact. Everything
bears an exorbitant price. The Act, which was in some measure
regarded and stemmed the torrent of oppression, is now no more
heeded than if it had never been made. Indian corn at five shil-
lings; rye, eleven and twelve shillings, but scarcely any to be had
even at that price; beef, eightpence; veal, sixpence and eight-
pence; butter, one and sixpence; mutton, none; lamb, none; pork,
none; mean sugar, four pounds per hundred; molasses, none;
cotton-wool, none; New England rum, eight shillings per gallon;
coffee, two and sixpence per pound; chocolate, three shillings.
What can be done? Will gold and silver remedy this evil ?
By your accounts of board, housekeeping, etc. , I fancy you are
not better off than we are here. I live in hopes that we see the
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most difficult time we have to experience. Why is Carolina so
much better furnished than any other State, and at so reasonable
prices?
Your
Portia.
BRAINTREE, June 8th, 1779.
ix months have already elapsed since I heard a syllable from
S,
opportunity of conveying a line to you. Letters of various
dates have lain months at the Navy Board, and a packet and frig-
ate, both ready to sail at an hour's warning, have been months
waiting the orders of Congress. They no doubt have their rea-
sons, or ought to have, for detaining them. I must patiently wait
their motions, however painful it is; and that it is so, your own
feelings will testify. Yet I know not but you are less a sufferer
than you would be to hear from us, to know our distresses, and
yet be unable to relieve them. The universal cry for bread, to
a humane heart, is painful beyond description, and the great price
demanded and given for it verifies that pathetic passage of Sacred
Writ, “All that a man hath will he give for his life. ” Yet He
who miraculously fed a multitude with five loaves and two fishes
has graciously interposed in our favor, and delivered many of the
enemy's supplies into our hands, so that our distresses have been
mitigated. I have been able as yet to supply my own family,
sparingly, but at a price that would astonish you. Corn is sold at
four dollars, hard money, per bushel, which is equal to eighty at
the rate of exchange.
Labor is at eight dollars per day, and in three weeks it will be
at twelve, it is probable, or it will be more stable than anything
else. Goods of all kinds are at such a price that I hardly dare
mention it. Linens are sold at twenty dollars per yard; the most
ordinary sort of calicoes at thirty and forty; broadcloths at forty
pounds per yard; West India goods full as high; molasses at
twenty dollars per gallon; sugar, four dollars per pound; Bohea
tea at forty dollars; and our own produce in proportion; butch-
er's meat at six and eight shillings per pound; board at fifty and
sixty dollars per week; rates high. That, I suppose, you will re-
joice at; so would I, did it remedy the evil. I pay five hundred
dollars, and a new Continental rate has just appeared, my pro-
portion of which will be two hundred more. I have come to this
determination, -- to sell no more bills, unless I can procure hard
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money for them, although I shall be obliged to allow a discount.
If I sell for paper, I throw away more than half, so rapid is the
depreciation; nor do I know that it will be received long. I sold
a bill to Blodget at five for one, which was looked upon as high
at that time. The week after I received it, two emissions were
taken out of circulation, and the greater part of what I had
proved to be of that sort; so that those to whom I was indebted
are obliged to wait, and before it becomes due, or is exchanged,
it will be good for - as much as it will fetch, which will be noth-
ing, if it goes on as it has done for this three months past. I
will not tire your patience any longer. I have not drawn any
further upon you.
I mean to wait the return of the Alliance,
which with longing eyes I look for. God grant it may bring
me comfortable tidings from my dear, dear friend, whose welfare
is so essential to my happiness that it is entwined around my
heart, and cannot be impaired or separated from it without rend-
ing it asunder.
I cannot say that I think our affairs go very well here. Our
currency seems to be the source of all our evils. We cannot fill
up our Continental army by means of it. No bounty will prevail
with them. What can be done with it? It will sink in less than
a year.
The advantage the enemy daily gains over us is owing
to this. Most truly did you prophesy, when you said that they
would do all the mischief in their power with the forces they had
here.
My tenderest regards ever attend you. In all places and situ-
ations, know me to be ever, ever yours.
.
A
AUTEUIL, 5th September, 1784.
My Dear Sister :
UTEUIL is a village four miles distant from Paris, and one from
Passy. The house we have taken is large, commodious,
and agreeably situated near the woods of Boulogne, which
belong to the King, and which Mr. Adams calls his park, for he
walks an hour or two every day in them. The house is much
larger than we have need of; upon occasion, forty beds may be
made in it. I fancy it must be very cold in winter. There are
few houses with the privilege which this enjoys, that of having
the salon, as it is called, the apartment where we receive com-
pany, upon the first floor. This room is very elegant, and about
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a third larger than General Warren's hall. The dining-room is
upon the right hand, and the salon upon the left, of the entry,
which has large glass doors opposite to each other, one opening
into the court, as they call it, the other into a large and beauti-
ful garden. Out of the dining-room you pass through an entry
into the kitchen, which is rather small for so large a house. In
this entry are stairs which you ascend, at the top of which is a
long gallery fronting the street, with six windows, and opposite to
each window you open into the chambers, which all look into the
garden.
But with an expense of thirty thousand livres in looking-
glasses, there is no table in the house better than an oak board,
nor a carpet belonging to the house. The floors I abhor, made
of red tiles in the shape of Mrs. Quincy's floor-cloth tiles. These
floors will by no means bear water, so that the method of clean-
ing them is to have them waxed, and then a manservant with
foot brushes drives round your room, dancing here and there like
a Merry Andrew. This is calculated to take from your foot every
atom of dirt, and leave the room in a few moments as he found
it. The house must be exceedingly cold in winter. The dining-
rooms, of which you make no other use, are laid with small
stones, like the red tiles for shape and size. The servants' apart-
ments are generally upon the first floor, and the stairs which you
commonly have to ascend to get into the family apartments are
so dirty that I have been obliged to hold up my clothes as though
I was passing through a cow-yard.
I have been but little abroad. It is customary in this country
for strangers to make the first visit. As I cannot speak the lan-
guage, I think I should make rather an awkward figure. I have
dined abroad several times with Mr. Adams's particular friends,
the Abbés, who are very polite and civil, — three sensible and
worthy men. The Abbé de Mably has lately published a book,
which he has dedicated to Mr. Adams. This gentleman is nearly
eighty years old; the Abbé Chalut, seventy-five; and Arnoux
about fifty, a fine sprightly man, who takes great pleasure in
obliging his friends. Their apartments were really nice. I have
dined once at Dr. Franklin's, and once at Mr. Barclay's, our con-
sul, who has a very agreeable woman for his wife, and where I
feel like being with a friend. Mrs. Barclay has assisted me in
my purchases, gone with me to different shops, etc. To-morrow
I am to dine at Monsieur Grand's; but I have really felt so
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happy within doors, and am so pleasingly situated, that I have
had little inclination to change the scene. I have not been to one
public amusement as yet, not even the opera, though we have
one very near us.
You may easily suppose I have been fully employed, beginning
housekeeping anew, and arranging my family to our no small
expenses and trouble; for I have had bed-linen and table-linen to
purchase and make, spoons and forks to get made of silver,
three dozen of each, — besides tea furniture, china for the table,
servants to procure, etc. The expense of living abroad I always
supposed to be high, but my ideas were nowise adequate to the
thing. I could have furnished myself in the town of Boston with
everything I have, twenty or thirty per cent. cheaper than I have
been able to do it here. Everything which will bear the name of
elegant is imported from England, and if you will have it, you
must pay for it, duties and all. I cannot get a dozen handsome
wineglasses under three guineas, nor a pair of small decanters for
less than a guinea and a half. The only gauze fit to wear is
English, at a crown a yard; so that really a guinea goes no further
than a copper with us. For this house, garden, stables, etc. , we
give two hundred guineas a year. Wood is two guineas and a
half per cord; coal, six livres the basket of about two bushels;
this article of firing we calculate at one hundred guineas a year.
The difference between coming upon this negotiation to France,
and remaining at the Hague, where the house was already fur-
nished at the expense of a thousand pounds sterling, will increase
the expense here to six or seven hundred guineas; at a time, too,
when Congress has cut off five hundred guineas from what they
have heretofore given. For our coachman and horses alone (Mr.
Adams purchased a coach in England) we give fifteen guineas a
month. It is the policy of this country to oblige you to a certain
number of servants, and one will not touch what belongs to the
business of another, though he or she has time enough to per-
form the whole. In the first place, there is a coachman who does
not an individual thing but attend to the carriages and horses;
then the gardener, who has business enough; then comes the cook;
then the maître d'hotel, — his business is to purchase articles in
the family, and oversee that nobody cheats but himself; a valet de
chambre, — John serves in this capacity; a femme de chambre,
Esther serves for this, and is worth a dozen others; a coiffeuse,–
for this place I have a French girl about nineteen, whom I have
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been upon the point of turning away, because madam will not
brush a chamber: “it is not de fashion, it is not her business. ”
I would not have kept her a day longer, but found, upon inquiry,
that I could not better myself, and hair-dressing here is very
expensive unless you keep such a madam in the house. She
sews tolerably well, so I make her as useful as I can. She is
more particularly devoted to mademoiselle. Esther diverted me
yesterday evening by telling me that she heard her go muttering
by her chamber door, after she had been assisting Abby in dress-
ing. Ah, mon Dieu, 'tis provoking "— (she talks a little Eng-
lish). —“Why, what is the matter, Pauline: what is provoking ? ”
—“Why, Mademoiselle look so pretty, I so mauvais. ” There is
another indispensable servant, who is called a frotteur: his busi-
ness is to rub the floors.
We have a servant who acts as maître d'hotel, whom I like at
present, and who is so very gracious as to act as footman too,
to save the expense of another servant, upon condition that we
give him a gentleman's suit of clothes in lieu of a livery. Thus,
with seven servants and hiring a charwoman upon occasion of
company, we may possibly make out to keep house; with less, we
should be hooted at as ridiculous, and could not entertain any
company. To tell this in our own country would be considered as
extravagance; but would they send a person here in a public char-
acter to be a public jest ? At lodgings in Paris last year, during
Mr. Adams's negotiation for a peace, it was as expensive to him
as it is now at housekeeping, without half the accommodations.
Washing is another expensive article: the servants are all
allowed theirs, besides their wages; our own costs us a guinea a
week. I have become steward and bookkeeper, determined to
know with accuracy what our expenses are, to prevail with Mr.
Adams to return to America if he finds himself straitened, as I
think he must be.
Mr. Jay went home because he could not
support his family here with the whole salary; what then can be
done, curtailed as it now is, with the additional expense ? Mr.
Adams is determined to keep as little company as he possibly
can; but some entertainments we must make, and it is no
unusual thing for them to amount to fifty or sixty guineas at
a time. More is to be performed by way of negotiation, many
times, at one of these entertainments, than at twenty serious con-
versations; but the policy of our country has been, and still is,
to be penny-wise and pound-foolish. We stand in sufficient
$
THE UNIVERSITY
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need of economy, and in the curtailment of other salaries I
suppose they thought it absolutely necessary to cut off their
foreign ministers. But, my own interest apart, the system is bad;
for that nation which degrades their own ministers by obliging
them to live in narrow circumstances, cannot expect to be held in
high estimation themselves. We spend no evenings abroad, make
no suppers, attend very few public entertainments, or specta-
cles, as they are called, — and avoid every expense that is not
held indispensable. Yet I cannot but think it hard that a gentle-
man who has devoted so great a part of his life to the service
of the public, who has been the means, in a great measure, of
procuring such extensive territories to his country, who saved their
fisheries, and who is still laboring to procure them further advan-
tages, should find it necessary so cautiously to calculate his pence,
for fear of overrunning them. I will add one more expense.
There is now a court mourning, and every foreign minister, with
his family, must go into mourning for a Prince of eight years old,
whose father is an ally to the King of France. This mourning is
ordered by the Court, and is to be worn eleven days only. Poor
Mr. Jefferson had to hie away for a tailor to get a whole black-
silk suit made up in two days; and at the end of eleven days,
should another death happen, he will be obliged to have a new
suit of mourning, of cloth, because that is the season when silk
must be left off. We may groan and scold, but these are expenses
which cannot be avoided; for fashion is the deity every one
worships in this country, and from the highest to the lowest, you
must submit. Even poor John and Esther had no comfort among
the servants, being constantly the subjects of ridicule, until we
were obliged to direct them to have their hair dressed. Esther
had several crying fits upon the occasion, that she should be
forced to be so much of a fool; but there was no way to keep
them from being trampled upon but this, and now that they are
à la mode de Paris, they are much respected. To be out of
fashion is more criminal than to be seen in a state of nature, to
which the Parisians are not averse.
AUTEUIL, NEAR PARIS, 10th May, 1785.
ID you ever, my dear Betsey, see a person in real life such
as your imagination formed of Sir Charles Grandison ? The
Baron de Staël, the Swedish Ambassador, comes nearest to
that character, in his manners and personal appearance, of any
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gentleman I ever saw.
The first time I saw him I was prejudiced
in his favor, for his countenance commands your good opinion:
it is animated, intelligent, sensible, affable, and without being per-
fectly beautiful, is most perfectly agreeable; add to this a fine
figure, and who can fail in being charmed with the Baron de
Staël ? He lives in a grand hotel, and his suite of apartments, his
furniture, and his table, are the most elegant of anything I have
seen. Although you dine upon plate in every noble house in
France, I cannot say that you may see your face in it; but here
the whole furniture of the table was burnished, and shone with
regal splendor. Seventy thousand livres in plate will make no
small figure; and that is what his Majesty gave him. The dessert
was served on the richest china, with knives, forks, and spoons
of gold. As you enter his apartments, you pass through files of
servants into his ante-chamber, in which is a throne covered with
green velvet, upon which is a chair of state, over which hangs
the picture of his royal master. These thrones are common to all
ambassadors of the first order, as they are immediate representa-
tives of the king. Through this ante-chamber you pass into the
grand salon, which is elegantly adorned with architecture, a beauti-
ful lustre hanging from the middle. Settees, chairs, and hangings
of the richest silk, embroidered with gold; marble slabs upon
Auted pillars, round which wreaths of artificial flowers in gold
entwine. It is usual to find in all houses of fashion, as in this,
several dozens of chairs, all of which have stuffed backs and
cushions, standing in double rows round the rooms. The dining-
room was equally beautiful, being hung with Gobelin tapestry, the
colors and figures of which resemble the most elegant painting.
In this room were hair-bottom mahogany-backed chairs, and the
first I have seen since I came to France. Two small statues of a
Venus de Medicis, and a Venus de (ask Miss Paine for the
other name), were upon the mantelpiece. The latter, however,
was the most modest of the kind, having something like a loose
robe thrown partly over her.
From the vedish Ambassador's
we went to visit the Duchess d'Enville, who is mother to the
Duke de Rochefoucault. We found the old lady sitting in an easy-
chair; around her sat a circle of Academicians, and by her side a
young lady. Your uncle presented us, and the old lady rose, and,
as usual, gave us a salute. As she had no paint, I could put up
with it; but when she approached your cousin I could think of
nothing but Death taking hold of Hebe. The duchess is near
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eighty, very tall and lean. She was dressed in a silk chemise,
with very large sleeves, coming half-way down her arm, a large
cape, no stays, a black-velvet girdle round her waist, some very
rich lace in her chemise, round her neck, and in her sleeves; but
the lace was not sufficient to cover the upper part of her neck,
which old Time had harrowed; she had no cap on, but a little
gauze bonnet, which did not reach her ears, and tied under her
chin, her venerable white hairs in full view. The dress of old
women and young girls in this country is detestable, to speak in
the French style; the latter at the age of seven being clothed
exactly like a woman of twenty, and the former have such a fan-
tastical appearance that I cannot endure it. The old lady has all
the vivacity of a young one.
She is the most learned woman in
France; her house is the resort of all men of literature, with
whom she converses upon the most abstruse subjects. She is of
one of the most ancient, as well as the richest families in the
kingdom. She asked very archly when Dr. Franklin was going to
America, Upon being told, says she, “I have heard that he is a
prophet there;" alluding to that text of Scripture, “A prophet is
not without honor,” etc. It was her husband who commanded
the fleet which once spread such terror in our country.
TO HER SISTER
I
LONDON, Friday, 24th July 1784.
My Dear Sister:
Am not a little surprised to find dress, unless upon public occas-
ions, so little regarded here. The gentlemen are very plainly
dressed, and the ladies much more so than with us.
'Tis true,
you must put a hoop on and have your hair dressed; but a com-
mon straw hat, no cap, with only a ribbon upon the crown, is
thought dress sufficient to go into company. Muslins are much in
taste; no silks but lutestrings worn; but send not to London for
any article you want: you may purchase anything you can name
much lower in Boston. I went yesterday into Cheapside to pur-
chase a few articles, but found everything higher than in Boston.
Silks are in a particular manner so; they say, when they are
exported, there is a drawback upon them, which makes them
lower with us. Our country, alas, our country! they are extrava-
gant to astonishment in entertainments compared with what Mr.
Smith and Mr. Storer tell me of this. You will not find at a
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gentleman's table more than two dishes of meat, though invited
several days beforehand. Mrs.
Atkinson went out with me yes-
terday, and Mrs. Hay, to the shops. I returned and dined with
Mrs. Atkinson, by her invitation the evening before, in company
with Mr. Smith, Mrs. Hay, Mr. Appleton. We had a turbot, a
soup, and a roast leg of lamb, with a cherry pie.
The wind has prevented the arrival of the post. The city of
London is pleasanter than I expected; the buildings more regu-
lar, the streets much wider, and more sunshine than I thought to
have found: but this, they tell me, is the pleasantest season to be
in the city. At my lodgings I am as quiet as at any place in Bos-
ton; nor do I feel as if it could be any other place than Boston.
Dr. Clark visits us every day; says he cannot feel at home any-
where else: declares he has not seen a handsome woman since he
came into the city; that every old woman looks like Mrs. H—,
and every young one like — like the D-1. They paint here nearly
as much as in France, but with more art. The head-dress disfig.
ures them in the eyes of an American. I have seen many ladies,
but not one elegant one since I came; there is not to me that
neatness in their appearance which you see in our ladies.
The American ladies are much admired here by the gen-
tlemen, I am told, and in truth I wonder not at it. Oh, my
country, my country! preserve, preserve the little purity and
simplicity of manners you yet possess. Believe me, they are
jewels of inestimable value; the softness, peculiarly characteristic
of our sex, and which is so pleasing to the gentlemen, is wholly
laid aside here for the masculine attire and manners of Amazonians.
I
LONDON, BATH HOTEL, WESTMINSTER, 24th June, 1785.
My Dear Sister :
HAVE been here a month without writing a single line to my
American friends. On or about the twenty-eighth of May we
reached London, and expected to have gone into our old quiet
lodgings at the Adelphi; but we found every hotel full. The sit-
ting of Parliament, the birthday of the King, and the famous
celebration of the music of Handel, at Westminster Abbey, had
drawn together such a concourse of people that we were glad to
get into lodgings at the moderate price of a guinea per day, for
two rooms and two chambers, at the Bath Hotel, Westminster,
Piccadilly, where we yet are. This being the Court end of the
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city, it is the resort of a vast concourse of carriages. It is too
public and noisy for pleasure, but necessity is without law. The
ceremony of presentation, upon one week to the King, and the
next to the Queen, was to take place, after which I was to pre-
pare for mine.
It is customary, upon presentation, to receive visits
from all the foreign ministers; so that we could not exchange our
lodgings for more private ones, as we might and should, had we
been only in a private character. The foreign ministers and sev-
eral English lords and earls have paid their compliments here,
and all hitherto is civil and polite. I was a fortnight, all the
time I could get, looking at different houses, but could not find any
one fit to inhabit under £200, beside the taxes, which mount up
to £50 or £60. At last my good genius carried me to one in
Grosvenor Square, which was not let, because the person who had
the care of it could let it only for the remaining lease, which was
one year and three-quarters. The price, which is not quite two
hundred pounds, the situation, and all together, induced us to
close the bargain, and I have prevailed upon the person who lets
it to paint two rooms, which will put it into decent order; so that,
as soon as our furniture comes, I shall again commence house-
keeping Living at a hotel is, I think, more expensive than
housekeeping, in proportion to what one has for his money. We
have never had more than two dishes at a time upon our table,
and have not pretended to ask any company, and yet we live at a
greater expense than twenty-five guineas per week. The wages
of servants, horse hire, house rent, and provisions are much
dearer here than in France. Servants of various sorts, and for
different departments, are to be procured; their characters are to
be inquired into, and this I take upon me, even to the coachman.
You can hardly form an idea how much I miss my son on this,
as well as on many other accounts; but I cannot bear to trouble
Mr. Adams with anything of a domestic kind, who, from morning
until evening, has sufficient to occupy all his time. You can have
no idea of the petitions, letters, and private applications for
assistance, which crowd our doors. Every person represents his
case as dismal. Some may really be objects of compassion, and
some we assist; but one must have an inexhaustible purse to
supply them all. Besides, there are so many gross impositions
practiced, as we have found in more instances than one, that it
would take the whole of a person's time to trace all their stories.
Many pretend to have been American soldiers, some have served
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as officers. A most glaring instance of falsehood, however,
Colonel Smith detected in a man of these pretensions, who sent
to Mr. Adams from the King's Bench prison, and modestly
desired five guineas; a qualified cheat, but evidently a man of
letters and abilities: but if it is to continue in this way, a galley
slave would have an easier task.
The Tory venom has begun to spit itself forth in the public
papers, as I expected, bursting with envy that an American min-
ister should be received here with the same marks of attention,
politeness, and civility, which are shown to the ministers of any
other power.
When a minister delivers his credentials to the
King, it is always in his private closet, attended only by the
Minister for Foreign Affairs, which is called a private audience,
and the minister presented makes some little address to his
Majesty, and the same ceremony to the Queen, whose reply was
in these words: “Sir, I thank you for your civility to me and
my family, and I am glad to see you in this country;” then she
very politely inquired whether he had got a house yet. The
answer of his Majesty was much longer; but I am not at liberty
to say more respecting it, than that it was civil and polite, and
that his Majesty said he was glad the choice of his country had
fallen upon him. The news-liars know nothing of the matter;
they represent it just to answer their purpose. Last Thursday,
Colonel Smith was presented at Court, and to-morrow, at the
Queen's circle, my ladyship and your niece make our compli-
ments. There is no other presentation in Europe in which I
should feel as much as in this. Your own reflections will easily
suggest the reasons.
I have received a very friendly and polite visit from the
Countess of Effingham. She called, and not finding me at home,
left a card. I returned her visit, but was obliged to do it by leav-
ing my card too, as she was gone out of town; but when her
ladyship returned, she sent her compliments and word that if
agreeable she would take a dish of tea with me, and named her
day. She accordingly came, and appeared a very polite, sensible
woman. She is about forty, a good person, though a little mas.
culine, elegant in her appearance, very easy and social. The Earl
of Effingham is too well remembered by America to need any
particular recital of his character. His mother is first lady to the
Queen. When her ladyship took leave, she desired I would let
her know the day I would favor her with a visit, as she should be
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loath to be absent. She resides, in suminer, a little distance
from town. The Earl is a member of Parliament, which obliges
him now to be in town, and she usually comes with him, and
resides at a hotel a little distance from this,
I find a good many ladies belonging to the Southern States
here, many of whom have visited me; I have exchanged visits
with several, yet neither of us have met. The custom is, how-
ever, here much more agreeable than in France, for it is as with
us: the stranger is first visited.
The ceremony of presentation here is considered as indispens-
able. There are four minister-plenipotentiaries' ladies here; but
one ambassador, and he has no lady. In France, the ladies of
ambassadors only are presented. One is obliged here to attend the
circles of the Queen, which are held in summer once a fortnight,
but once a week the rest of the year; and what renders it exceed-
ingly expensive is, that you cannot go twice the same season in
the same dress, and a Court dress you cannot make use of any.
where else. I directed my mantuamaker to let my dress be ele-
gant, but plain as I could possibly appear, with decency; accord-
ingly, it is white lutestring, covered and full trimmed with white
crape, festooned with lilac ribbon and mock point lace, over
hoop of enormous extent; there is only a narrow train of about
three yards in length to the gown waist, which is put into a rib-
bon upon the left side, the Queen only having her train borne.
Ruffle cuffs for married ladies, treble lace lappets, two white
plumes, and a blond lace handkerchief. This is my rigging. I
should have mentioned two pearl pins in my hair, earrings and
necklace of the same kind.
THURSDAY MORNING.
My head is dressed for St. James's, and in my opinion looks
very tasty. While my daughter's is undergoing the same opera-
tion, I set myself down composedly to write you a few lines.
“Well," methinks I hear Betsey and Lucy say, “what is cousin's
dress? White, my dear girls, like your aunt's, only differently
trimmed and ornamented: her train being wholly of white crape,
and trimmed with white ribbon; the petticoat, which is the most
showy part of the dress, covered and drawn up in what are called
festoons, with light wreaths of beautiful flowers; the sleeves white
crape, drawn over the silk, with a row of lace round the sleeve
near the shoulder, another half-way down the arm, and a third
upon the top of the ruffle, a little flower stuck between; a kind
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of hat-cap, with three large feathers and a bunch of flowers; a
wreath of flowers upon the hair. Thus equipped, we go in our
own carriage, and Mr. Adams and Colonel Smith in his. But I
must quit my pen to put myself in order for the ceremony, which
begins at two o'clock. When I return, I will relate to you my
reception; but do not let it circulate, as there may be persons
eager to catch at everything, and as much given to misrepresent-
ation as here. I would gladly be excused the ceremony.
FRIDAY MORNING.
Congratulate me, my dear sister: it is over. I was too much
fatigued to write a line last evening. At two o'clock we went to
the circle, which is in the drawing-room of the Queen. We
passed through several apartments, lined as usual with specta-
tors upon these occasions. Upon entering the ante-chamber, the
Baron de Lynden, the Dutch Minister, who has been often here,
came and spoke with me. A Count Sarsfield, a French noble-
man, with whom I was acquainted, paid his compliments. As I
passed into the drawing-room, Lord Carmarthen and Sir Clement
Cotterel Dormer were presented to me. Though they had been
several times here, I had never seen them before. The Swedish
and the Polish Ministers made their compliments, and several
other gentlemen; but not a single lady did I know until the
Countess of Effingham came, who was very civil. There were
three young ladies, daughters of the Marquis of Lothian, who were
to be presented at the same time, and two brides. We were
placed in a circle round the drawing-room, which was very full;
I believe two hundred persons present. Only think of the task!
The royal family have to go round to every person and find small
talk enough to speak to them all, though they very prudently
speak in a whisper, so that only the person who stands next to
you can hear what is said. The King enters the room and goes
round to the right; the Queen and Princesses to the left. The
lord-in-waiting presents you to the King; and the lady-in-waiting
does the same to her Majesty. The King is a personable man;
but, my dear sister, he has a certain countenance, which you and
I have often remarked: a red face and white eyebrows. The
Queen has a similar countenance, and the numerous royal family
confirm the observation. Persons are not placed according to
their rank in the drawing-room, but promiscuously; and when the
King comes in, he takes persons as they stand. When he came
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to me, Lord Onslow said, "Mrs. Adams; ” upon which I drew off
my right-hand glove, and his Majesty saluted my left cheek; then
asked me if I had taken a walk to-day. I could have told his
Majesty that I had been all the morning preparing to wait upon
him; but I replied, “No, Sire. ” «Why, don't you love walking ? »
“”
says he. I answered that I was rather indolent in that respect.
He then bowed, and passed on. It was more than two hours
after this before it came to my turn to be presented to the Queen.
The circle was so large that the company were four hours stand-
ing. The Queen was evidently embarrassed when I was presented
to her. I had disagreeable feelings, too. She, however, said,
“Mrs. Adams, have you got into your house? Pray, how do you
like the situation of it ? ” While the Princess Royal looked com-
passionate, and asked me if I was not much fatigued; and ob-
served, that it was a very full drawing-room. Her sister, who
came next, Princess Augusta, after having asked your niece if she
was ever in England before, and her answering « Yes,” inquired
of me how long ago, and supposed it was when she was very
young All this is said with much affability, and the ease and
freedom of old acquaintance. The manner in which they make
their tour round the room is, first, the Queen, the lady-in-waiting
behind her, holding up her train; next to her, the Princess Royal:
after her, Princess Augusta, and their lady-in-waiting behind them.
They are pretty, rather than beautiful; well-shaped, fair complex-
ions, and a tincture of the King's countenance. The two sisters
look much alike; they were both dressed in black and silver silk,
with silver netting upon the coat, and their heads full of diamond
pins. The Queen was in purple and silver. She is not well
shaped nor handsome. As to the ladies of the Court, rank and
title may compensate for want of personal charms; but they are,
in general, very plain, ill-shaped, and ugly; but don't you tell any.
body that I say so. If one wants to see beauty, one must go to
Ranelagh; there it is collected, in one bright constellation, There
were two ladies very elegant, at Court, - Lady Salisbury and
Lady Talbot; but the observation did not in general hold good
that fine feathers make fine birds. I saw many who were vastly
richer dressed than your friends, but I will venture to say that I
none neater or more elegant: which praise I ascribe to the
taste of Mrs. Temple and my mantuamaker; for, after having
declared that I would not have any foil or tinsel about me, they
fixed upon the dress I have described.
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(Inclosure to her niece)
My Dear Betsey:
BELIEVE I once promised to give you an account of that kind
of visiting called a ladies' rout. There are two kinds; one
where a lady sets apart a particular day in the week to see
company. These are held only five months in the year, it being
quite out of fashion to be seen in London during the summer.
When a lady returns from the country she goes round and leaves
a card with all her acquaintance, and then sends them an invita-
tion to attend her routs during the season. The other kind is
where a lady sends to you for certain evenings, and the cards are
always addressed in her own name, both to gentlemen and ladies.
The rooms are all set open, and card tables set in each room, the
lady of the house receiving her company at the door of the draw-
ing-room, where a set number of courtesies are given and received,
with as much order as is necessary for a soldier who goes through
the different evolutions of his exercise. The visitor then proceeds
into the room without appearing to notice any other person, and
takes her seat at the card tablé.
«Nor can the muse her aid impart,
Unskilled in all the terms of art,
Nor in harmonious numbers put
The deal, the shuffle, and the cut.
Go, Tom, and light the ladies up,
It must be one before we sup. "
SO
At these parties it is usual for each lady to play a rubber, as
it is termed, when you must lose or win a few guineas. To give
each a fair chance, the lady then rises and gives her seat to
another set.
It is no unusual thing to have your rooms
crowded that not more than half the company can sit at once,
yet this is called society and polite life. They treat their com-
pany with coffee, tea, lemonade, orgeat, and cake. I know of
but one agreeable circumstance attending these parties, which is,
that you may go away when you please without disturbing any.
body.
I was early in the winter invited to Madame de Pinto's,
the Portuguese Minister's. I went accordingly. There were about
two hundred persons present. I knew not a single lady but by
sight, having met them at Court; and it is an established rule,
though you were to meet as often as three nights in the week,
never to speak together, or know each other unless particularly
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introduced. I was, however, at no loss for conversation, Madame
de Pinto being very polite, and the foreign ministers being the
most of them present, who had dined with us, and to whom I
had been early introduced. It being Sunday evening, I declined
playing cards; indeed, I always get excused when I can. And
Heaven forbid I should
“Catch the manners living as they rise. ”
Yet I must submit to a party or two of this kind. Having
attended several, I must return the compliment in the same way.
Yesterday we dined at Mrs. Paradice's. I refer you to Mr.
Storer for an account of this family. Mr. Jefferson, Colonel
Smith, the Prussian and Venetian ministers, were of the com-
pany, and several other persons who were strangers. At eight
o'clock we returned home in order to dress ourselves for the ball
at the French Ambassador's, to which we had received an invi.
tation a fortnight before. He has been absent ever since our
arrival here, till three weeks ago. He has a levee every Sunday
evening, at which there are usually several hundred persons.
The Hotel de France is beautifully situated, fronting St. James's
Park, one end of the house standing upon Hyde Park.
It is a
most superb building. About half-past nine we went, and found
some company collected. Many very brilliant ladies of the first
distinction were present. The dancing commenced about ten,
and the rooms soon filled. The room which he had built for this
purpose is large enough for five or six hundred persons. It is
most elegantly decorated, hung with a gold tissue, ornamented
with twelve brilliant cut lustres, each containing twenty-four
candles. At one end there are two large arches; these were
adorned with wreaths and bunches of artificial fowers upon the
walls; in the alcoves were cornucopiæ loaded with oranges, sweet-
meats, and other trifles. Coffee, tea, lemonade, orgeat, and so
forth, were taken here by every person who chose to go for
them. There were covered seats all around the room for those
who chose to dance. In the other rooms, card tables, and a
large faro table, were set; this is a new kind of game, which is
much practiced here. Many of the company who did not dance
retired here to amuse themselves. The whole style of the house
and furniture is such as becomes the ambassador from one of the
first monarchies in Europe. He had twenty thousand guineas
allowed him in the first instance to furnish his house, and an
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annual salary of ten thousand more. He has agreeably blended
the magnificence and splendor of France with the neatness and
elegance of England. Your cousin had unfortunately taken a
cold a few days before, and was very unfit to go out. She
appeared so unwell that about one we retired without staying for
supper, the sight of which only I regretted, as it was, in style,
no doubt, superior to anything I have seen. The Prince of
Wales came about eleven o'clock. Mrs. Fitzherbert was also
present, but I could not distinguish her. But who is this lady?
methinks I hear you say. She is a lady to whom, against the
laws of the realm, the Prince of Wales is privately married, as is
universally believed. She appears with him in all public parties,
and he avows his marriage wherever he dares. They have been
the topic of conversation in all companies for a long time, and it
is now said that a young George may be expected in the course
of the summer. She was a widow of about thirty-two years of
age, whom he a long time persecuted in order to get her upon
his own terms; but finding he could not succeed, he quieted her
conscience by matrimony, which, however valid in the eye of
heaven, is set aside by the laws of the land, which forbids a
prince of the blood to marry a subject. As to dresses, I believe
I must leave them to be described to your sister. I am sorry I
have nothing better to send you than a sash and a Vandyke
ribbon.
